Golden Leaf

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Nicolas lost another tooth!!!



Hello everyone. Well, we are finished with swim now. We go back in the middle of June.
Last Monday Nico lost another tooth during swim practice. Unbelievable!!!
This past Friday Nico and Vince had a " guys night out ". They went to an arena football game
at the Bradley Center. The Milwaukee Iron vs the Utah Blaze. The Milwaukee Iron won!!
They had a great time. The boys were dancing, cheering and high five everyone. But, during
all of the cheering they were doing, Nicolas lost ANOTHER tooth!!!! Can you believe it???
He has two more loose teeth to go and we think that's it. He should have all of his adult teeth then. He has friends that have lost only 2 or 3 teeth and here he is 2 teeth away from having all of his adult teeth. Only our boy!!!

Mother's day was nice. Vince was on call for the weekend. So he spent most of the time at
the hospital, which sucked! I'm use to it though.When you have a spouse working in the medical field, you have no choice but to accept it.
But before he left, he made me strawberry pancakes which were out of this world. My husband
is a great cook. I'm so lucky!!!
Nicolas and I went for walk and we took Montana with us. Nicolas loves walking her.
It was a nice day. The boys gave me the most beautiful flower arrangement I have ever seen.
Plus one of my favorite things to eat...... an ice cream cake!! YUM!!
Nicolas gave me a card that he made. He worked on it all week and it was beautiful.
We hope you had a wonderful Mothers day as well.
Love to all!!

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Happy Mother's Day





Hi everyone. It's been awhile since I posted and I'm sorry for that. Life has been pretty busy
for us lately. We are doing some home improvements so we can put the house on the market.
Vince is working on the kitchen cabinets and Nicolas and I are painting the kitchen.
Well, I should say that Nicolas is painting the kitchen but I help when I can. We still have more
to go but it is a good start.

About the jerk that tried to break-in, he is 15 yrs old and lives with his aunt and uncle. His parents didn't want him anymore. He isn't suppose to be in South Milwaukee for reasons unknown to us. He has
left me alone now, but he was harassing me at Nicolas's school for a time. It got so bad that I was
scared to death to walk down to pick up Nicolas from school. My biggest fear was that he would tried to shoot me on the playground or hurt Nicolas in some way. One good thing through, we finally replaced our back door. It's a steel door with no windows. Now I can walk up the stairs without seeing his face looking back at me. That's a relief!!!!

We have some very exciting news to share with you. Nicolas is back swimming again. He had a meet
on April 30th and he did outstanding!!!
He swam the following:

. IM 100yards 2.24 which he took 1st place.
. Freestyle 25 yards 22.07 and took 1st place.
. Butterfly 25 yards 31.426 and he took 1st place.
. Backstroke 25 yards 28.41 and took 2nd place.

But even more exciting news is that Nicolas has set 2 new team records. They are....

. Butterfly 25 yards, 26.7. Backstroke 25 yards, 28.41

We are over the moon with happiness and amazement. He loves to swim and loves being on this team. He is
lost during down time. Honestly, so are we. It's so much fun going to meets and cheering on the kids.
It's great to see the confidence and pride they have for themselves. I know the first picture is somewhat blurring but I got him in midstream. He is swimming the Butterfly stroke.
We hope that everyone had a good Easter and are enjoying the sometimes warm weather.
Until next time, take care and lot's of love!!!

Happy Mother's Day!!!!




Sunday, March 28, 2010

"This would never happen to me."

Hello everyone. This past Thursday was one of the scariest days of my life. That day was an
eye opener and a reality check for us. It's something I never want to go through again and
it's something I'm struggling to get past.

Thursday morning, I dropped Nico off at school and walked home. I had a couple of errands
to run so I left right away. I came home briefly @ around 10:00 a.m. I left again because I forgot
something but I returned an half hour later. As I was driving past my home to go park in the garage, I noticed a black kid walking past our home. I didn't think much about it. We have cameras mounted in the front and in the back of our house and they are taping 24/7. We
have a sun porch that is connected to the back of the house. There is only a screen door,
so it's easy to enter the sun porch. So, I came through the back way. I locked our main backdoor
but not the screen door. I put my stuff down on the kitchen table and went
down to the basement to do laundry. When I finished I turned to walk up the stairs when
I saw this black guy staring @ me. It was the same black guy I saw a couple of minutes ago walking down the street.

He was in the sun porch for a minute and a half before we came face to face.
He was wriggling the door handle, trying to open it when I saw him. I ran up the stairs,
screaming " GET THE F**K OUT OF HERE!" " I'M CALLING THE POLICE!" etc.
He mumbled twice about how he was looking for his buddy. He finally left. I stood there for
a couple of minutes. just trying to process what just happened. Wondering if it
really happened. I finally snapped out of it and went and locked the garage door and closed
the gate. I then called Vince and told him what happened. He told to call the police, which
I did. They came right away. When we viewed the tape, I was in for another big shock.

The cameras showed him walking up the FRONT door first and looking in and wriggling
that door knob. He continues to try but fails. So, he walks away but immediately gets on the phone. But what is really crazy is as he was walking away from the front door, I was walking in the back door. Seeing that, everything changed. The cop took my statement and told me
he would be in touch. That night 2 cops came over to look @ the tape. They wanted to see if
they recognized him. Surprise!!! They did. He has been arrested twice, ( one was last week )
for breaking and entering and theft. They caught him and a buddy walking down the
street carrying a big flat screen T.V. We made copies of the tape and handed it over to
the police, which will make this a " slam dunk" case, as Vince would say. He was the same guy
3 weeks ago that came to the front door trying to get in. Montana spooked him off then. We think he was " casing out the place".

They targeted us for the T.V. I thank god that he was alone and that I had that main
backdoor locked. I'm going crazy with the thoughts of " What if". Well, as our
luck would have it, that wasn't the end.

Friday, I left to pick Nico up for school when, I SAW him. He was on the school
playground. Needless to say, I freaked out!!!! I called 911 right away. He was with 2
younger kids, roughly around Nico's age. But as the cops were coming he took off.
He ran across the street and into the alley. The cops got him. They arrested him, but
was free that night. Ready for another shock???
He lives down the block from us and those kids were his family members. They go to Nico's school!!!

We have spent the weekend rearranging the living room and installing dead bolts. We are having someone come out to give us an estimate on a steel door for the back. We still
have to buy shades or blinds for our french doors so no one can look in.
This was our " dream home " and now I don't want to be here anymore. I'm jumpy and very
nervous. I haven't slept since this happened. I'm hoping with time I'll start
feeling better and secure again. I don't want to be the " victim " and give him that power over me.
Of course, Nico does not know about any of this. I guess the next step to take is
to work on feeling better.

We hope everyone is doing good. Lots of love to all of you.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

March 13, 2010 Swim Conference.







Hi everyone. On Saturday the 13th, Nicolas had his swim conference. It was a crazy but
exciting day. I guess it was a little nerve racking as well. We swam against 6 other
teams from all over the city. All the teams had to stay in the gym until it was their
time to swim. It was kinda of cool because each team had their corner where
they got ready or just hung out. We were able to meet and socialize with the parents
from our team. If the kids were not swimming, they were eating, playing with
their DS or other games. Some kids took naps while they waited. We had to be there
at 9:00 and practice time was 9:30. The conference started at 10:30. There were 86
events and 178 races. In the beginning it was somewhat confusing reading the 6 page
event sheet, but we got the hang of it. Some of the events were cancelled at the last minute because of "no shows". So Nicolas swam 3 times instead of 4. He was disappointed with that,
but after awhile he was fine.

The young guy walking with Nicolas in the above picture is one of his coaches. Now the way
this was scored is a little confusing. It took us a bit before we got it. The judges take the
kid's best overall time and compares it to the time he swims there. Also, if a kid comes in
1st place in a race doesn't mean he will get a ribbon. The judges reward only their overall scores. Only 1-3 received medals and 4-6 received ribbons.
So our team came in 2nd place this year!!! Riverside took 1st place.
So here are his times.....

He swam the 25 yards Backstroke. His best time for that was 26.70. At conference he swam 28.75
and took 3rd place. Overall, he took 9th place.

He swam the 25 yards Freestyle. His best time for that was 2.98. At conference he swam 23.56
and took 4th place. Overall he took 10 place.

Finally, he swam his 100 yards IM. His best for that was 2.40. At conference he swam amazing
2.21 and took 5th place!!! He took an amazing 19 seconds off his best overall time!!!!
We and his coaches were over the moon to say the least. At first, Nico was upset that he
came in 5th place, note knowing his time yet. But once he found out his time, he was
speechless!!! He did receive a 5th place ribbon for his IM! So, now we are done with swim.
We go back after Easter.

Last Saturday, Vince and I got to have a " date " night. We didn't know what to do with ourselves. But we figured it out and decided to go to dinner and then we caught a movie.
We saw Bounty Hunter. Great movie!! We certainly recommend it. I'm looking forward to a quiet weekend. All the running around is done and now it's time to do some spring cleaning.
I've been neglecting my house a little lately because we've been so busy.
So, we wish all of you a wonderful spring and lots of love!!!

Happy Easter!!


Thursday, March 18, 2010

Rawson Ave. Spring concert!



Last night, Nicolas's school had their Spring concert. This year the theme was
Broadway Beat. Each grade sang 4 songs. All the kids did great. Nicolas's grade is the biggest
grade in the school with 92 kids. Each year it keeps on getting bigger. This year he got a little solo part. He
introduced the 3rd song, Gary Indiana.
He practiced for 2 weeks everyday. He had his part written down and in his pocket,
just in case he would freeze and forget. But his music teacher wanted him to do it by memory.
All 3 of us were nervous. But he got up there and did it like a pro! Vince and I were cheering
and acting like a couple of fools but that's okay, we're proud parents!!!
He surprise us everyday. Here is his speaking part.....

Gary Indiana
This song describes the loyalty a person can have for a town, or for us, a school!
We hope you enjoy "Gary Indiana."
Well, that's it for now. We wanted to brag some more. We hope everyone is enjoying the beautiful weather. We are as much as we can before the rain and snow come back.
Lots of love to all of you!

Happy St. Patrick's Day

Monday, March 15, 2010

Last swim meet of the session!



Hi everyone! Well, we had our last swim meet of the session on Friday 3/5. It was
suppose to be a home meet but it got changed at the last minute. We were
suppose to swim against the Boys & Girls Club, but they lost all of their funding.
So we ended up at Riverside High school. Lets just say, we were not welcomed with
open arms. They treated our kids poorly. Our kids barely got to swim. When they did,
Riverside acted like it was such a hassle. Our coaches were pretty angry. They
tried to talk to them about all of this, but it fell on deaf ears.
It was a nightmare!!

Nicolas did swim 2 heats. He swam the Backstroke and the IM. Here is an
example of how Riversides' attitude was. There were 7 kids competing in the
Backstroke. Instead of splitting up the kids, they made Nicolas swim alone.
Needless to say, it was the worst time he ever had on his Backstroke. It's
hard to go fast when you are the only one in the pool. We are happy that night is over.
So, here are his times...

IM, 100 yards. 2.43! He took 4th place.

Backstroke, 25 yards. 32.03! He took 5th place.

This past Friday was the last night of practice so the coaches let the kids have some fun.
As the pictures above show, they did have alot fun. The kids managed to throw 3
coaches in the water. This coming Friday is the pizza and awards party. We are
looking forward to that. This past Saturday was the big swim conference. So, the
awards and times from that will be given then.
Well, that's all for now. We hope everyone is doing good. Lots of love to all of you.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Nico loses his tooth during practice.

Hi everyone. I just had to blog this because it's to funny not to tell you. Last week Nicolas was at swim practice
and he was doing the backstroke and swimming towards the deep end when.....
he lost a molar!!!!!! Now that's not the funny part. A girl that was swimming behind him
and hearing all of the commotion, decided to help. She dove to the bottom , in the deep end
mind you,
and FOUND the tooth!!! AMAZING!!!!

Needless to say, it took awhile for everyone to compose themselves and resume practice.
What are the odds of finding a tooth in the deep end of a pool?
When I took Nicolas to the dentist last month, the dentist was amazed at how many adult teeth he has already. He has 6 baby teeth left and all of them are loose. He is always doing
something to make us laugh.

Well that's it for now. We hope all of you are doing good and we send our love to you.